So you are a new and want to swing...

The Internet dating has become the easiest way to find open minded people in your neighborhood. You can go into any search engine and find websites with erotic personals and swingers clubs in your city.

Once you found few clubs, then you want to contact them. Email is fine but the phone call is better. You need to know what to expect, you need to ask some questions and the club owner or manager will ask some questions from you too.

Many clubs only accept couples, and single lady. If you are representing a couple, you should know that the club owner or manager will want to talk to the both of you, just to be sure both of you know that why people go to swingers club.

A lot of beginning couples should know the environment is no-pressure or not. That is why you should select an off premises club to start. Off premises stand for no intercourse on the premise, so usually these kinds of clubs are very friendly. You don't want to go into a hardcore club at first. You should go step by step.

Okay you have all the information and you are at the club door. What to expect inside.

All clubs have rules, different clubs, and different rules. They might have dress code, so you should find out ahead of the time. Men will usually want to avoid jeans and sneakers, while women want to dress as sexy as they dare. Probably you have to prove your age too, so be sure to bring your identification with you as well. Also photo or video camera usually not allowed inside the club (except if everyone agree inside). You do not want to get into any trouble in you first night, so do not take your camera with you.

Once you are in the club things will change. Maybe you just want to watch first what other people do to find out where is the limit. If things turn you on you might want to participate. You do not have to, but if you decided to participate you have to ask, especially if you are male.

A guy should not go to any lady and start to touch her just like this. If he does, he might find outside himself at no time.

You want to have fun and if you are nervous, you will not have fun. You need to take it easy, relax and do not do anything that you do not want to, just because other people doing it, or somebody talked you into.

Do something that you don not want to do, is not fun and you might hate yourself next mornings.

If you do not want to do something, do not do it and let them know with a simple, no. No one should question that or make you feel bad for saying no. Every swinger knows that what no means.