Imagine for a moment that you're sitting in a movie theater watching a really great movie. You're really having fun! There's adventure, excitement, romance, and even a touch of danger. But best of all, there's an aire of mystery and unpredictability. Now . . . imagine watching the same movie . . . twice a week . . . for the next 3 months.

What happens at the end of the three months? For most of us, that movie will no longer be fun. It won't be adventurous. The excitement won't be there any longer. And the unpredictability? Haah...what unpredictability? You're got the entire darned script memorized by now! Without even trying!

To re-experience the fun, excitement and intrigue of watching a great movie, you have to watch a new movie, with a new plot, and new twists. It has to be unpredictable

Great sex, in many ways, is similar to watching a great movie. And just like a great movie, to be able to enjoy sex again and again, it has to be unique.

It has to have new twists and turns, and it has to be unpredictable. Because when it's predictable, you know exactly what will happen and exactly when it will happen. You're back to watching that same darned movie over and over again. It's predictable. It's just not fun anymore. In fact, it's downright boring.

So...the secret ingredient to having great sex is variety! In order to keep sex interesting and fun, the what, the how, the when, and the where have to keep changing.

Similarly, if every now and then you end up having sex exactly the same way as you did a month ago, you'll still enjoy it a lot, as long as you don't do the same thing every single time. The great thing about having sex is that, unlike watching a movie, it's almost impossible to have sex in exactly the same way as you did previously.

Plus you can add variety easily try swingers sex or lesbian sex or gay dating. Threesome, group sex, sex with bi-sexuals try all these if you are daring and adventurous and your partner is fully agreed to it.