Underneath all of the beauty, most of these powerful women have a ‘shadow’ or dark side. This dark side is secretly wanting a man who is in control of himself, his reality, and them.

But their unconscious knows and recognizes this desire as something that they want. Many women will take what is available to them but they will ultimately resent and disrespect a man who gives too much to them.

As a matter of fact, to most hot women men kiss up to them and give them what they ask for or demand. Men who don’t fit this mold are often just tuned.

This is very counter-intuitive, but again, we’re dealing with female human behavior, which has roots and drives that are complex and often difficult to trace.

The solution is to not kiss ass or do things for them like everyone else. Be different. Expect them to pull their own weight, call them on all of their issues and messed-up behaviors just like you would a guy friend or family member, tease and make fun of their insecurities in a playful way, reframe other men who kiss their ass, and put beauty in a new light.

The fact is that women will sleep with rich men who kiss their asses and model-handsome guys who don’t treat them well to satisfy their sex drives.

But overall, an average looking man who takes good care of himself and makes enough money and who is cocky, direct, challenging, confident, funny, and in control - one who challenges her constantly and never kisses her ass- will be far more fulfilling to a beautiful woman than the other types.

This difference is not only interesting to her, but it’s also challenging as well. A man who does such will not only be able to win her body, but also her interest and fascination. It will also keep her messed up behaviors more in check while allowing you to stay more in control of the situation.

You’ll also notice out in the real world that some fortunate men have the looks, fame, personality, or whatever that causes women to act naturally open and receptive to them. If you’re one of these men, then congrats to you!

Attraction has different roads that lead to it. Some are easy shortcuts, but some take a little longer, present more challenges, and require more skill. But there is a structure to the process and if you learn that structure, you will be more successful.