There two types of swingers into those who participate for recreational and those who participate for utopian reasons.
Recreational swingers see swinging as a social activity much like bowling, playing tennis and cards.
Utopian swingers have a general philosophy of communitarians and wish to share not only sex but all other aspects of life with their fellow participants.
There is a general belief among swingers that swinging has a positive effect upon a marriage. They believe that sexual fidelity is harmful and breeds jealousy and a feeling of ownership between a husband and wife. Swinging does away with jealousy and helps each mate see the other as an individual and not as a possession.
Another reason for participating in swinging is boredom with marital sex. Swingers feel that it is impossible for one person to satisfy another sexually over an extended period of time.
Swinging is seen as a method of adding new excitement to the marriage, perhaps even salvaging it. Most swingers know
couples who have tried to salvage a bad marriage by swinging, but they ague that this generally has not been very successful.
Most swingers believe that swinging alone cannot save a bad marriage. They do believe that it can strengthen a good marriage.
There may be deeper psychological reasons for swinging. It is believed that men may need to translate early sexual fantasies into reality and that women may be fulfilling social-romantic needs. Some believe that because of the marginality of the new middle class, they seek experiences with others in order to feel they belong.
They participate in swinging to develop social ties and to satisfy the need for sexual fulfillment that is a result of their restrictive middle-class backgrounds. Swinging gives them an opportunity to do both without disrupting their general lifestyle.
All reasons, whether social, psychological, or sociological, are at the present time only speculation. One could easily conclude that the reasons for participating in swinging are as varied as swingers themselves.
