Both hubby and I hate condoms. I love to feel the squirt of cum against the inner walls of my pussy or mouth... and on my breasts.
However in the today's STD's world absolutely necessary to practice safe sex only with anyone outside of your permanent partnership. We made this clean for anyone who wants to play with us. It is simple - No condom no sex. Also there is no sex 100% safe. Accidents can happen, condoms can break. You have to face it, you might pick up some nasty disease or get pregnant. I do not want to get pregnant, therefore, for condom breaking protection I take birth control... Also we are selective in who we invite to join us.
During our first "get-acquainted" contact with a prospective new guy, we ask lots of questions. We attempt to get a fix on his past
lifestyles, whether or not he is married.
We do not play with married men without his wife knowledge. She doesn't have to play, she doesn't have to be there, but she have to know that, her husband looking for sex and she have to agree with this. We do not having sex with guys who cheats on their wife!
I would say that for one reason or another, at least 75% the guys we have met for a "get acquainted" drink never end up in our bed. We weed them out. We want guys who will be fun to be with, at ease with their sexuality, straight have a high probability of clean health, and are intelligent. Most of all, we want to avoid takers... rip and run artists... guys who have other than giving in mind. After all, I am openly a bit selfish!
Finally, I don't want to leave you or your readers with the impression that we invite a different man into our bed every night. We do this occasionally for pamper our self... Generally, we set up an MFM threesome about once in every two months with someone. I have never met any of the guys when my hubby was not with me. These may not be necessary rules... but they are our rules... and they work well for us.
In the 12 years since we decided to give MFM threesomes a try, I have probably had the opportunity to experience the cocks, tongues and hands of 40 or so different guys while hubby has simultaneously made love to me and screwed about 25 - 30 different women, of course he did it with me, in my presence...