Men are ready for intercourse any time hence their focus is always on genitals. Most men think this is also true for women. As a result, during foreplay, men are in a hurry to get to the woman's genitals. Men think, this is the best way give pleasure to a woman. Wrong!

In contrast, women need more time spent on foreplay before they are ready for
intercourse. So, they assume this is true for men as well. And as a result, during foreplay,most women will touch a man everywhere but his genitals. Just like the man, the woman assumes that since this is how her body works, it is probably the best way to give pleasure to the man.Wrong!

And so begins the confusion where everyone's stepping on everyone else's toes.

The man will want to touch and pleasure the woman in her genital area immediately or he will want to get to intercourse, which will make the woman feel rushed. The woman will touch the man everywhere else until the man finally grabs her hand and puts it on his genitals.

It's safe to say that the result of this experience is confusion and frustration.

If the man gets his way and speeds through everything, the woman is left unsatisfied and sometimes sore. If the woman is able to slow things down so it works out better for her, the man may feel frustrated or even rejected. He may feel that he's doing something
wrong.

The best thing is of course to know facts before you go sex dating and enjoy the sex in a holistic manner and not like animals-understand and learn these fact and implement them seriously for that great sex thrill.