After many years of experience I’ve now realized that there is a conspiracy against men being successful with women.
Most men that I know have some kind of ‘feeling’ that it’s wrong in some way to sleep with more than one woman at a time.
Most women are outspoken and very forward about the idea that it’s WRONG for most men to date and sleep with more than one woman.
What I’ve discovered while
dating women is that the moral idea of monogamy has been formalized, passed down, and force-fed to us by rulers, religions, and women for thousands of years.
Anywhere from hundreds to thousands of years ago, rulers of lands kept large harems of women. These rulers kept so many women not just for the sexual variety that it provided them, but also for the reproductive power that it gave them.
Right! They passed laws to promote monogamy. Many religions prohibit sex, make sex ‘wrong’.
If you look at it from an ‘economic’ standpoint, it doesn’t benefit women at all to have their man running around having sex with other women. She can only be pregnant with one child at a time, and she can only raise a limited number at a time. So having a man who’s out spreading his seed is BAD BAD BAD for business for her.
When you’re out spreading seed, you can’t be working or at home helping. Even worse, you might have other kids with other women who will further divide your attention and income.
So anything that promotes monogamy like religion is seen as ‘right’ to many women, as it goes along with what they think and feel.