Marrying someone for love is a relatively new phenomenon.

Women judge you by the job that you currently hold. Your future earning potential will be closely scrutinized by any possible female partner.

I really don't think that it's a good idea to let yourself be tossed aside just because your career prospects are not so good at the moment. Why throw away a potentially great relationship that could possibly lead to marriage just because you currently don't have a good job.

Whatever it is that you do, must always be put in the best light. Don't be too hard on women for being this way. We can be difficult as well. For example, if you met an ugly girl, and had. a one night stand with her, you would not be bothered if she never called you again. You would not care because she wasn't very pretty to begin with.

Now, is that nice? Of course it isn't. Bottom line, cruel world". You can learn a great deal by reading the personals in any newspaper around the country. Look at what men and women want.

Men want young and pretty wives. Women want a man who is financially secure, or who has the potential of achieving financial security. This is why you must demonstrate that you are capable of earning enough money to provide a more than comfortable lifestyle, for your future wife and kids.

There are other positive attributes that you need to convey to a woman. You must be kind and intelligent. Act with a certain level of sophistication, have an experienced air about you. You can project all these images by the way you speak to her. Be calm, confident, in control, and above all, always give her the impression that you have the utmost respect for her.