If you ever tried to find partner to have casual sex with, probably you know chemistry is important for us.

What chemistry has to do with sex anyway?

Some swingers want to have friendship and maybe more. Some others just looking for sex only. People usually do not have sex with their friends. Friends are for something else.
You may find your best friend very attractive, but think about it, how can you ask her/him for a date. If you do it, probably your friendship will be over. If you are a female and your best friend is a male, you should not even try it. If he turns out to be your lover you may have to marry him, but we get back to the beginning.

Are you already married? In this case its even worse. You never will get rid of your turn to be a lover friend. Friendship is nice but swinging with somebody and being friends with somebody is entirely all different. I can say it is not that kind of friendship.

Of course we can have a good time together, (we should have) and not just only in the bed, we can dance and laugh and go to the beach but when sparks fly between two couples, we're quick to say we have chemistry and the day may end up in sexual action.


So what is this chemistry?

Chemistry is what chemistry is. You mix two different chemicals (male and female) together (i.e. a date, or swingers club), and see if anything happens. There is no guarantee that there is going to be some reaction (sparks, that turn you on) from the mix. Sometimes you have to mix a chemical with another chemical to get some reaction going (one more couple or single person).

You can be single or couple: If you are with a new couple on a first date and nothing happens-they do not feel any sexual energy and the sparks are not flying around.

Usually if a couple does not see anything in you, on a first date, you should move on, because probably you are just wasting your time. So basically no chemistry – No Sex.


If you ever tried to find partner to have casual sex with, probably you know chemistry is important for us.