Communication is the key. Talk to your lover like she is your mistress and she will respond as a mistress. Talk to her like she is on old gym bag and she will respond like an old gym bag. Here are some ideas:

Compliment her physical appearance, especially her hair, clothes, shoes and perfume when you go dating with her . A woman wears these things for herself but she also wears them for you. Take notice and compliment her on other things. Women are always conscience about their clothes. The more you compliment a woman on her appearance, her sexiness, her sexual performance, or anything she does, the harder she will try to please you. It is all part of preparing her mind for uninhibited sex.

Ask her how her day was.

Be careful with this question and use your best judgment because it could open up a can of worms. If she is angry about anything, you may hear about it after asking, but she may take it as a thoughtful gesture and respond with appreciation Remember that you are trying to create an atmosphere that is free for sexual expression.

Let her know how you feel about her and what it’s like to make love to her.

As you make love to her, starting with the first touch to the last, tell her what you are experiencing. Let her know what it is like to kiss her, touch her, hold her, love her, look at her, smell her, see her expressions. On the other hand, tell her how good she makes you feel while she gives you sexual attention.

Build your lover up in front of others; Compliment her, brag about her.

While having sex saturate your lover with foreplay until she verbally or physically asks, insists or begs you to make love to her. In this way you will know she is ready and she will be much more responsive to lovemaking. Now that you have reached this stage, start teasing her, as slow as you can go, inch by inch, a little in, a little out, take as much time as you can in giving her all you've got.

Hear her. Most women will let you know what they want, but the problem is they usually express it with sarcasm or resentment.

If a woman ever tells you how good you look, she is really asking you to notice her and compliment her.

Wake up! Many things a woman does or says is the opposite of what she really means.