It's much easier to flirt with someone if they want to flirt with you. But how can this apparent miracle be achieved?

What is it about some lucky people that make them attractive to others, whilst more unfortunate people only manage to repulse those whom they would like to shag?

We always assume it's down to the way someone looks, which gives an unfair and unearned advantage to good-looking people. But looks are only half of the package of ingredients that determine someone's attractiveness. The rest of the ingredients are inside the person.

They consist of a person's characteristics, their outlook on life, their sense of humor, their confidence, their affability, their social skills, and their sense of self worth.

All these things together are potentially capable of overcoming any physical shortcomings.

And if you do not fear a whack on the bum or a slap on the face you instigate someone to flirt with you by sending a wink on a dating site or live or by rubbing your body against her or him or anything else you can think of.

Good Luck!