What is basic first we are dealing with of whom women fuck and whom they don't?
Masculinity, all that is a man, is what they are attracted to. Surely women by nature are attracted to what puts in, what moves forward, what dominates. As by nature women take in and are penetrated. Women’s first basic nature is to “take in” to submit, to be lead.
What makes a man a man and woman a woman? To get the most attractive, most feminine of women surely we want to be what she is lacking to bring out what she is. A Masculine.
What makes a man a man besides a penis? Your personality, your character your way of acting. Testosterone, Inner beliefs of a non-feminine nature, a view of the world based on being a
male match and how being that is perceived, maturity rather than adolescence. All these things make a man a man.
Labor and use of your body, release of endorphins and effects on testosterone, insulin, masculinity and too much to go in to here. Just LIFT SOMETHING other than bags of groceries and do it regularly this will increase testosterone. This will at least start on your way to getting the chemicals in your body on the right track for a more masculine behavior base however.
Eat right. drink plenty of water and give an effort to lay off the white stuff though. Both eating right and lifting weights unless you have a weight problem already will keep you lean and attractive looking socially as well as biologically to women.
Take a risk man. Get in a martial art where you will compete with other men or even have a game of hardcore rugby or hell if you want go fight club and start fighting your buddies in the back yard. Go sky diving, bungee jumping, go on a roller coaster, and go camping alone in the woods.
Quit masturbating all the time PLEASE. Lack of orgasm tells your body it isn't mating, this causes increased testosterone levels to make you more aggressive in finding a mate. An orgasm with a woman on the other hand INCREASES testosterone levels from the excitement.