It is not just good killer looks and appearance the works for women-tall dark and handsome. These following behavioural traints are inportant
Attraction is an automatic response. Attraction is created just like in the market place of products. If a product is rare… it’s attractive. If a product is shiny, new, clean, desired by others… it’s attractive. It the product is “on sale”… the natural question is why is it on sale?
If you are too eager to meet and be with a woman, you are communicating that you are “on sale.” “Sale” items are not treasured. “Sale” items are in abundance… don’t be “on sale”.
Don't tell a good-looking woman how hot she is, how pretty she is, how beautiful she is, or how sexy she is. She's heard it all a thousand times before. It will not make her feel “attracted” to you.
To make a woman feel attracted to you, you must come across as rare. We are attracted to rare gemstones… rare cars… rare flowers, etc. If what you communicate to a woman is rare her interest sparks.
If she’s in a class of Beethoven music lovers, she can only stand so much talk about Beethoven. If you come along and you’re the expert in Mozart, suddenly, you’re RARE.
If most of the folks she knows are serious then she is attracted to someone who has a sense of humor
But the
single most important thing a man can do to make himself attractive to the opposite sex is this: A man should demonstrate to a woman he is interested in her as a person... and... convince her of this... before... he makes any kind of sexual move whatsoever.
Here is what you can do
Be desire-less.
Don’t come on like you’re interested in her sexually. Don’t show desire. If you have no desire for her, she will begin to think she’s slipping. She will more likely feel desire for you if you feel less desire for her.
Typically a woman runs when she thinks you’re interested in her too much. In order to present yourself as “desire-less” you must have a life. You must be interested in something else besides her. The stock market? Classical music? Anything. Also, if you have other women interested in you, it proves you’re “desire-less” at least toward her.
Be excellent.
This could mean anything from saving a cat from a tree to donating time to orphans. If you do something excellent… make sure you do it in her presence.
Be gone. Women love to chase a man.
They are suspicious if you “chase” them. If you show too much interest in them too soon, they will run. The reason for this is, by and large, women have low self-esteem. They know inside they are a mess. So if you show interest in them without them earning it, they suspect you have an agenda.
Let them earn it. Let them chase you.